When love feels like walking on eggshells…

You know that feeling, right?

When you rehearse conversations in your head before having them. When you’re exhausted from another evening of careful words and heavy silences. When you catch yourself thinking: “Is this really what love is supposed to feel like?

You’re not imagining it. And you’re definitely not alone…

Couples Therapy

Effective EFT Therapy

Improve your relationship, rekindle your love and strengthen your bond with effective couples therapy.

Affair Recovery Therapy

Moving forward after infidelity

Heal your relationship and rebuild trust after infidelity has nearly brought you to a separation or a divorce.

Emergency Couples Counseling

De-escalating an relationship crisis

Get an immediate intervention to help de-escalate a harmful situation in your relationship which may lead to a break-up.

Individual Therapy

Gestalt Therapy

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'Hold me Tight' Course

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Learn to understand and strengthen your emotional bond through seven essential conversations for successful relationships.

Maybe I can help…

You know that feeling, right?

When coming home feels heavy. When you’re exhausted from another evening of careful words and loaded silences. When you catch yourself thinking: “Is this really what we signed up for?”

You’re not imagining it. And you’re definitely not alone.

I’m Reginald
I’m a couples therapist who genuinely believes in love—even when it feels impossible.

Not in the fairytale kind. In the messy, complicated, worth-fighting-for kind.

I work with Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Gestalt Therapy because I’ve seen how they help couples find their way back to each other. My specialty is rebuilding trust after affairs and infidelity, but I work with all kinds of relationship struggles.

My approach? Warm, honest, and sometimes a bit provocative. I won’t take sides, but I will call out patterns that keep you stuck. I believe therapy can be both serious and light—because humor and hope matter, especially in hard moments.

I tailor everything to fit you. No cookie-cutter solutions. Just real support for the relationship you’re trying to save.

If You’re Ready

Reaching out isn’t giving up. It’s saying: This matters. We matter.

You don’t need all the answers right now. You just need to be willing to try something different.

 

Making sure you’re in good hands

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Complete Therapy Care Plans

If you want skills that last, not just relief

Complete Therapy Care Plans are ideal if you’re tired of the same fights on repeat. My plans give you time to practice new ways of connecting until they actually stick. You’re not just venting—you’re rewiring patterns. Each session builds on the last, so the changes you make become part of who you are together.

Single sessions

When you’re committed but need flexibility

Single sessions are for couples who are all-in on their relationship but need a flexible approach—whether that’s timing, budget, or life circumstances. You’re not “trying” therapy. You’re choosing support that fits your reality right now. When you’re ready for the depth a program offers, that door’s always open.

Frequently Asked Questions

Questions?
I’ve got answers

Don’t see yours here? That’s okay—just get in touch. I’m happy to help.

Is it too late for us?

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If you’re both still willing to show up, it’s not too late. Even if you’re barely holding on. Even if you’ve tried before. Even if you’re not sure you want to fix it anymore—ambivalence is normal.

What if my partner won't come?

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Start anyway. Sometimes one person needs to take the first step. We can explore what’s possible even if your partner isn’t ready yet (though marriage counseling works best when you’re both involved).

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What if we fight in session?

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That’s actually useful. I can see the cycle happening in real-time and help you understand it together. It’s a safe place to fight differently.

Take the first step together

Start with an intro session

Schedule a no-pressure intro session where we’ll get to know each other, explore your concerns, and see if we’re the right fit.

You’ve got this.